Psalm 27

Since November of last year, I was working two jobs: mornings at the Bellevue Lucky Brand Jeans and evenings at the Covington Applebee's. With both jobs, I worked full-time or a little over - not counting the time it took driving - and had maybe one and a half days off every week. LBJ was my second job and kept it after the holidays only for the amazing employee discount. It felt nice to look good while spending less that I normally would. As months progressed, my pursuit of a writing career was a bit strained. Instead of using the few mornings I wasn't at LBJ to hit up Craigslist or Indeed, I slept in until a couple of hours before I had to leave for Applebee's. Or if I was up early, I would spend that time getting myself sucked into Facebook, Twitter, Wordpress, Blogger, Google, or watching court shows, talk shows, fashion shows, or whatever instead.

To be clear, I wasn't a complete bum. I started off pretty motivated and applied to a handful of places, but with every unanswered application, I was discouraged -  

Was my resume that bad? Did I not edit my cover letter thoroughly?

Then it turned in to doubt -

Maybe I am a horrible writer. Maybe this isn't where the Lord is directing me. Am I even qualified for anything?

I began to give up and sat in front of the TV watching every silly TV show on my Netflix queue. I would talk with Jason about how difficult it had been looking for jobs. At first he sympathized, but our talks turned into nightly bitch fests about how much I began to resent both jobs, what some rude customer said to me and how I responded in unloving and unforgiving ways. My husband grew deadpan with every story I filled with vulgarity and malice, and I began to resent him for not feeling angry with me. I thought, He works in Renton! He should understand ghetto!

But I heard myself becoming someone I did not want to be. Someone that was not for Christ nor the loving wife to my husband.

But how do I stop? I was so unhappy and didn't want to drop a job impulsively. There was a tug on my heart to leave LBJ, but even if I quit, what did that guarantee besides making less money? I wanted something to happen, but what did I need to do?

"Wait for the Lord;
be strong, and let your heart take courage;
wait for the Lord!"

Psalms 27:14

This verse hit me during the Mother's Day sermon. I had to wait for there is absolutely nothing else I can do besides wait for the Lord to reveal His plan. Maybe I need to say this again to myself: I had to wait. Since November, my life hardly stood still, and I kept asking myself: what do I do while waiting? Yet another question that involved me needing to compensate for the time I felt I was wasting. To move my life forward, faster toward my desired destination.

Rereading this verse, I question whether it was me who was waiting for the Lord or was it He who was waiting for me to stop getting in His way. Was He waiting for me to arrive at the place He needed me to be to understand that my life is not run by me, but by Him? That His plans and my plans are not the same? That my need to control everything in my life is futile when He will unfailingly show time and time again He is God and sovereign over all?

It was put upon my heart to run to God's people for help during this time. To meditate on His Word and serve His people. So I signed up for Children's Ministry at church and joined a Ladies' Breakfast Book Study for every other Saturday. I still feel a great need to control my life, but for the moment, most of the anxiety and stress has left my heart and I continually pray to understand what it looks to follow God's will. None of this is to say I  will never feel anxiety about my future again, but I am saying that right now, God is transforming me to be more like Jesus. He is encouraging me to pursue Him and His people in faith without knowing what is in store for my future. I feel like my eyes are shut and I'm being led by a friend whom I love and trust, but still question if I'll be led into a wall and break my nose or find myself ankle-deep in a muddy puddle. 

It's been a couple of weeks since God has revealed this truth to me and God opened an opportunity to serve on the Communications team at church. Amazing news and I am excited for glorifying God in my writing. For the mean time, I pray to be strong and take courage and wait for the Lord to reveal what He has in store.

Blessings,
Q.